As pivotal as it is to women, communication is a vital tool that helps people come to common ground when things are going awry. When your woman wants to sit down and have a conversation with you, there are some very specific things you need to implement into the mix so you are not ran over to the point it damages your pride. The first of these things is the tone of voice that is taken with you while the woman is conveying her ever important message to you.
If she takes the tone of a mild mannered woman that seems to have some sense about her, then you should be just fine and no action is necessary to end the talks; however, if the conversational tone starts to raise into the point of yelling and cursing, the talks are over and she needs to know this with a firm, calm tone that delivers the point that talks can resume when she decides to treat you with respect and dignity that you deserve as a man which anyone that reads a society directory could easily confirm.
Lingo Matters
No man deserves to talked to like he’s a piece of poo no matter what the situation is; if your woman wants to talk to you with a respectful tone then entertain anything she has to say. When the tone goes through the roof to the point your neighbor’s dog is barking madly, then you need to firmly end the talks and let her know that they may resume after she’s taken a valium and calmed down.
Next, you need to set the rules in terms when conversation can take place. Since you are obviously a hard-working man, the talks need to be during respectful hours of the day and night; the woman doesn’t need to crawl in bed and begin a long, drawn-out debate over why the dishwasher wasn’t emptied by junior or why the garage door looks cock-eyed. These things need to be discussed when you have downtime, not during sleeping hours or by phone calls at work.
Finally, you need to lay down the ground rules for where is an appropriate place to have a conversation about various things; if the volume can be kept at a respectable level, dinner or shopping malls are fine for the talks; however, if the woman tends to be loud or boisterous about her feelings, it is not appropriate to raise these issues in public because you could lose serious man points for allowing anyone – even your woman – to talk to you like a five-year old in public. There is a time and place to have the conversations that she is seeking to have with you; therefore, the talks need to happen at those places and not in public areas where other men are prowling around with their women.
Using ‘L’ Word Sparingly
Now that we have dealt with how you need to teach your woman to have conversations with you; the next and perhaps the most vital subject of all is how to teach your woman the ‘L’ word that they seem to think we abuse. This is perhaps one of the biggest keys to the whole Man Manual because you need to get the word’s clear definition conveyed to your significant other before she accuses you of further abuse of the word and then decides that you don’t love her anymore because you love football more.
